Peace demands the most heroic labor and the most difficult sacrifice. It demands greater heroism than war. It demands greater fidelity to the truth and a much more perfect purity of conscience. (Thomas Merton)
Helen of Troy, the face that launched a thousand ships. The wife of Menelaus. But when she saw Paris, she fell in love with him at first sight. If I were Helen, would I pursue my love for Paris? My answer is NO.
22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of
the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Saviour of the body. 24
Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own
husbands in everything. [NKJV]
Before marrying, one should know very well a woman's responsibilities to her husband-to-be. If I were Helen, I would be faithful to my husband and I would not look into another man. If my love for Paris would cause chaos for Troy, I would not take the risk to be with him. Oh, yes, true love. Many people say that if it is true love, one would need to fight for it. But, does it always have to be that way? Sometimes, we do not need to do something for ourselves, like what Helen did when she went together with Paris to Troy. If something is bound to happen, it will happen in the right time, just as God's timing is always right. Never behind and never ahead. Always perfect. And we need to be patient enough to wait. LOVE IS PATIENT, Apostle Paul said. What will happen if we got carried away by our desire for that person? Well, what happened to Helen and Paris? A war rose between Troy and Sparta. Paris died. Helen came back to his husband. Helen and Paris love each other so much, and they were happy to be together. But what have their love caused others? It caused others to die. Something that is not supposed to happen, happened. What if our love for a person causes other people to breakdown? I would not take the risk. If something is really right, every one and every thing would go well.